I haven't had any luck getting into the iPhone, so I restored. I guess it tempered some way with the wireless, and could not let me connect. At first i thought the IP changed, but that was not the case. At least now we know what happens if u reboot :).
PS: the only thing I need is to find out how can I retrieve the sms/mms's from my last backup along with my pics and vids, without restoring my backup on my iPhone. Any ideas....sry 4 the offtopic.