I am having a bit of difficulty configuring my GMail account:
1) When I send a message from my phone or PC using GMail, I see the sent message as a new item in the iPhones inbox. How do I stop this from happening?

2) What are best settings in GMail and the iPhone to have something as close to Push email out of Google as possible, so I do not have to go through mail twice on my iPhone and Gmail account?

2b) Is real-time synchronized Push type email possible out of GMail or is there an app being developed to do this that I should keep an eye on?

3) Did anybody see a configuration for email that makes you go back to the inbox when you delete a message vs. going to the next item? Pet peeve of mine..