Can someone tell me a step by step way on how to log into my AppleTV with Chicken of the VNC? I tried everything. Im trying to install the skype plugin. The only step left is logging into my Apple TV with VNC. Im not familiar with VNC. Thanks.

It's not easy, but it's possible.
Enable Remote Desktop (VNC - AwkwardTV)

so how do i install the plug in?

Hmm... once you install nitoTV you can then enable AFP and SMB by placing a combo Tiger upgrade in Documents along with a restore file in which the 1.0 restore image is embedded (I have done this with a Take 2 ATV) and run Smart Installer within nitoTV. Along the way you will see what final steps (two terminal commands as I recall) to get VNC going. Software Menu will also toggle VNC on and off. The problem I see is that when you VNC into the ATV you see the ATV Finder which is not what you want I think. I really don't think that VNC is going to do anything for you as you won't get to a desktop that you are familiar with.

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