I did anySim unlock wich didn't work got an error "unable to locate byte to patch".
Then i followed advice on forum and did the following

what i did run from command line
1. launchctl load -w /System/Library/LaunchDaemons/com.apple.CommCenter.plist
2. patch lockdownd to /usr/libexec

i didn't quite understood what number 2 meant, i think i just had to copy that file in that directory, so that's what i did, and THEN...

Now Iphone is loading for 5 minutes after you turn it on, after that it shows "slide to unlock" but you have to slide like 10 times until it works and etc

MORE IMPORTANT - Itunes can't detect it, so i can't even restore the phone,
what should i do?????

I had the same... like iphone not responding of super suuper slowww

I did the following:
While holding the home and sleep button of the iphone plugged to your mac....restart your computer....
I tunes should detect it...then restore it

It worked, thanks a lot, did you actually unlock the phone after that, how did you do it? was it slow again after unlocking?

No I had just to reactivate it (With independance).....and all was ok.
I used SSh (that i activated with independance) to replace the lockdownd file inside the iphone in order to use my sim (reset to factory mode)
I did not have to run again the unlocking software

Cheers