I implemented AFP using this guide
http://wiki.awkwardtv.org/wiki/Take_...29_Install_AFP

Pretty useful for transferring videos that the "normal" video player won't play (due to different formats, etc.)

By default, it's using the regular "com.apple.mac.icns" instead of the "com.apple.apple-tv.icns" as it is defined to be used in the /System/Library/CoreServices/CoreTypes.bundle/Contents/Info.plist file. Can't do Command + I & then paste the icon. I tried that & it didn't work.

I think I would have to do something along these lines but, I tried everything & nothing is working

http://forums.macrumors.com/showthread.php?t=458047
http://forums.macosxhints.com/showthread.php?t=59941

Any help would be awesome